In April of 1989 I knew something was wrong with my new baby boy.....he was always sick, had diarrhea, didn't eat, losing weight, coughing, and cried a lot. I would take David to the doctors every other day....and on the day he was not at the doctor's office I called. David went from a healthy 18 lb boy to a sickly 9 lbs. I knew something was wrong....but the doctors keep telling me that he sounded good and nothing was wrong. My husband and family thought that I was overreacting. But I knew my son!
On Sunday, April 30th David's lips turned blue while he was coughing. We took him to St Christopher's hospital in Philadelphia....were we lived at the time. When the staff took my son into the ER they put a pulse ox on his little finger.....at the time I had no idea what the number's meant....but his oxygen level was at 86....all of the sudden the nurses and doctors threw us out of the room with no explanation...we were scared! What was wrong? Once we were called back into the room the parent of the child that was in the next bed to David was looking at us with pity......they knew something that we didn't know yet. All I could do was pray.....the doctors told us that David was very sick and they didn't know why.....they didn't know if he would survive the next few days.......
It was April 30th and our first son David was in the hospital with
some mysterious illness that had the doctors perplexed. When David's
oxygen level was extremely low they took a chest x-ray and discovered
that his lungs were full of pneumonia. The doctors usually hear crackles
when a person has pneumonia...yet all these months David never did.
This was pointing the doctors to a specific disease however, they needed
to preform a lung biopsy to determine the cause of the disease.
Once
the doctors performed the test they put David on a ventilator so that
he could breathe. It was discovered that David had a rare pneumonia that
is caused by a germ that we all have in our throats...with a normal
immune system we fight it off....but he was not able to fight off this
germ. The doctors asked us the standard questions regarding the
possibility of me having HIV...and that I could have passed it onto
him...of course this was impossible....I never did drugs, had a blood
transfusion or had relations with anyone besides my husband. I was
scared......I thought maybe I could have picked up HIV some other
way....you have to understand the scare of the 1980's ....it was
believed by the public that one could get HIV from mosquito bites, or
toilet seats....The doctors soon explained that they needed to do more
test but that David was born without an immune system. Why GOD? This was
our immediate question.....why us?
The doctors said that David
should begin to show improvement with a strong antibiotic that would
help him within 8 hours. However, David did not get better. They needed
to switch to the last antibodic that was left to fight this pneumonia,
Bactrum. The doctors again said we should know within the next 8-16
hours if the med's would work. Meanwhile, we prayed! God was are only
source of strength. We had our family gather around us...our church
family visited us and prayed for us....but we still felt alone. No one
understood. But when we turned to the LORD....he gave us peace. We were
still scared and felt like we were drowning....but the LORD gave us
great strength. We would draw on this strength many times throughout the
years.....and the LORD always took care of us.
Eight
hours, ten hours, twenty-four hours went by and David was not any
better. He seemed worse. The doctors told us to start making funeral
arrangements....
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